Welcoming Young Guests to Your Special Day
When you envision your wedding day, you probably picture laughter, joy, and the faces of those you love most—both big and small. If you have family members or friends with children, including kids in your wedding festivities can add a delightful layer of celebration.
First, take a moment to learn more about Rustic Rose Hall. We are a wedding and event venue that is part of a family-owned cabin community in Broken Bow, Oklahoma, just a quick drive from Dallas, Oklahoma City, Fayetteville, or Shreveport and close to beautiful Beavers Bend State Park. We understand the importance of family. Every wedding we host is special to us, and we’re here to make your special day truly amazing. We have the space and the activities for children to be part of your wedding day.
Our pricing is completely transparent. You can read through our packages right on our website. Be sure to check out our Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok for some inspiration, or reach out to schedule a tour. Let us make your wedding everything you’ve ever dreamed of—and more!
We know the importance of surrounding yourselves with your family and friends as you begin this new chapter. However, balancing the needs of children with the significance of your event takes some thoughtful planning. With a few well-considered strategies, you can create a day that’s memorable and enjoyable for everyone.
Ceremony: Keeping the Peace and the Magic
No one wants their vows drowned out by the wails of a fussy child or a parade of restless toddlers. Yet, we all know that little ones operate on their own schedules, and their needs are immediate! The goal is to design a ceremony that welcomes families while minimizing disruptions.
- Strategic Seating for Parents: Reserve seats at the back for parents with young children, allowing them to quietly exit and return if their little ones need a break. This gesture removes the stress of disturbing the ceremony for everyone else and helps parents feel considered and welcome.
- Climate Comfort: Outdoor ceremonies are beautiful, but remember that a child’s comfort threshold is far more limited than an adult’s. Provide fans for hot days or cozy blankets for chilly weather to help keep everyone content.
- Quiet Fidgets for Little Hands: Small, silent fidget toys—like bendable sticks or soft rings—can help children stay engaged (and quiet!) during the service. These sensory objects entertain without making noise, so you can say “I do” in peace.
Reception: Fun for All Ages
After the formality of the ceremony, kids will be ready to move, play, and explore. By offering child-friendly activities, you not only entertain young guests but also allow their parents to relax and join in the celebration.
- Kid-Approved Food and Drink: While adults may savor sophisticated appetizers and champagne, children appreciate simpler fare—think sliders, mac and cheese, fruit cups, and juice boxes. Offer options that are tasty and familiar to smaller palates.
- Create a Kids’ Table: Set up a dedicated space with crayons, coloring sheets, simple card games, or classic board games. Supervised or unsupervised, this table gives children a place to bond, create, and stay occupied.
- Outdoor Games Galore: Utilize our venue’s outdoor space; set up games like cornhole or giant Connect Four. These activities let kids burn off energy while adults enjoy speeches, the first dance, or cake cutting in peace—and without pint-sized photo bombers rushing the dance floor!
Grace, Gratitude, and Understanding
Remember: your friends and family with children are making an effort to celebrate with you. If they need to slip out early, greet their departure with gratitude, not disappointment. Their attendance—even if brief—shows their love and support. Thank them for balancing their busy lives to be present on your big day.
Embracing Kids as Part of Your Story
Children are a vibrant part of your community, and their presence can bring spontaneity, laughter, and warmth to your wedding. By accommodating their needs and weaving them into your plans, you set the stage for a celebration that’s inclusive, memorable, and joyful for guests of all ages.
In the end, a wedding that welcomes kids is a celebration of family in its truest sense—full of love, laughter, and a little unpredictability. With just a bit of extra planning, you’ll create an event that everyone will cherish and remember.
It’s your story. Let us help you create the wedding that you dream of sharing with whomever you wish to share it.To learn more about weddings at Rustic Rose Hall, read through our packages right on our website. Be sure to check out our Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok for some inspiration, or reach out to schedule a tour. Let us make your wedding everything you’ve ever dreamed of—and more!
